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Ms. vs. Miss

I was wondering if anyone has any input on Miss vs. Ms.  I have an 18 year old cousin, who will definitely get a Miss.  My FI has an unmarried 50-something aunt, who will definitely be a Ms.

But what about people in between?  Most of my friends are in their mid to late twenties.  Should I address the singles as Miss or Ms.?  I feel like Miss sounds young, but Ms. sounds old...
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Re: Ms. vs. Miss

  • edited December 2011
    For your 18 year old cousin I would do Ms. as well- anyone over 16 I did Ms.
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  • edited December 2011
    I would use Miss for any guest under the age of 25, after that I would use Ms.
  • Laurms15Laurms15 member
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    edited December 2011
    I did 18 and over as Ms. anyone under 18 I did Miss. (though there may have been only one Miss if that....)
  • andreapnycandreapnyc member
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    edited December 2011
    from what i've rad, it is Ms for 18 and up.  I'm in my mid 20's and whenever i got Miss i thought it was a lil weird, but that's just me!
  • ev4149ev4149 member
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    edited December 2011
    Apparently this is an easier question than I anticipated!  I've personally gotten a mix of wedding invitations (Miss vs. Ms.), so I wasn't sure.  It doesn't bother me one way or the other when I receive an invite, but I want to do the right thing.  Thanks!!!!
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_new-jersey_ms-vs-miss?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:90Discussion:a2300534-aa1b-4784-b747-cc314a1454b2Post:4ac39052-eb46-4061-8925-ab7dfde4cdf5">Re: Ms. vs. Miss</a>:
    [QUOTE]I would use Miss for any guest under the age of 25, after that I would use Ms.
    Posted by jrgoogrl[/QUOTE]
     this is what I did. I feel like Ms. sounds old, and I wouldn't want to be called Ms. is I was in my early twenties
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  • DandT1206DandT1206 member
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    edited December 2011
    Miss sounds too young, so I did Ms.
    I don't think I had anyone under 18 get their own invitation, otherwise, I would have considered using Miss.
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  • edited December 2011
    Miss I used for someone i still considered a child. 18 isn't a child to me, so I would do Ms. I think maybe 15 and up should be Ms.
  • edited December 2011
    I am using 18 as my reference point. Anyone 18 and older are going to be Ms. while under 18 are going to be Miss.
  • edited December 2011
    When I was single & older than 18, I felt not that "Ms." was "old," rather, that it was politely anonymous...like some married people go by Ms., some single...

    Anyway, I'd go with Ms.!
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