When does it go down? Does it go down before or after the bridesmaids? We were going to put it down the night before when we decorate the church because we were going to have rose petals all around it since I won't be having a flower girl. But, I'm seeing everyone say that it needs to go down after the bridesmaids...thoughts? And, if it goes down after the bridesmaids....then who will put it down? My groomsmen will all be up in front...I will have 2 male ushers though...would they be putting it down? HELP!