i'm new to this, and not getting married until 2012. I am looking to stay under $14k including honeymoon.
My best friend got married last year in FL and has been a wealth of information for me. I have been sending her links to venues and I've been telling her prices. She informed me that all the venues she saw in FL didnt have a fee for reception. Matter of fact, she only paid $350 for the ceremony fee as a non member of a country club.
Is it typical in NC to charge a $1500-$7000 rental fee and it not include anything but the space and chairs? I assume the FL venues made their money with food and beverages. How come nobody that I've called has said "ma'am, there is no fee for rental but we do require you to use our on site catering. I'm fine with that. But I've spoken to places with the above prices for just the rental, plus many had $10k minimum food and beverage clauses. Am I missing something?
Also, I dont remember what search I did (im on google overload) But i found a place locally that offered this, no fee for venue but just pay for food and alcohol. I was starting to just think this $1500 fee was normal until she pointed out she visited many venues and nobody had this fee, unless it was included into their food and bev package.
am I totally confused? Also I found one place that said "site/service/security/parking for $7000". Is this ludacris without food? I know I'm on a rather tight budget, but I think its possible.
Any suggestions for my area? I actually live in Waxhaw but South Charlotte, or upstate SC is fine.