WHO IS WORRIED ABOUT THEIR FI'S BACHELOR PARTY???

LindseyandMarc

I KNOW MOST WOMAN THINK STRIPPERS AND REALLY WHO CAN HANDLE THAT??? ESPECIALLY WHEN GUYS WILL BE GUYS..

nessi979

if youre worried about your husband behaving at his bachelor party, then you shouldnt be marrying him.    Youve probably got more to worry about with co-workers then the evenings hired entertainment. 

LindseyandMarc

i AGREE, I am NOT worried BUT I KNOW there are people that are!!!

mbcdefg

STOP YELLING!

diamondx423

not in the slightest bit. i love him and trust him completely.

VanessaB24

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[QUOTE]STOP YELLING!
Posted by mbcdefg[/QUOTE]
lol

reese511

not worried what-so-ever.

EDIT...i'm more worried about him drinking himself sick!  =(

Laurms15

I was totally fine w/ him going to a strip club they didn't but one the GF's of the GM was freaking out and super bitter about it!!

LindseyandMarc

LOL oops meant lol..
Ive been to a bachelor party, did the whole stripper scene till the morning end. Pretty exhausting how men can drink and just be merry... I gotta say....

littledaisies

My FI just called me now to say he's on his way to his bachelor party. I'm not worried at all. He's going away for the weekend to play paintball and drink. Honestly if a stripper showed up I really wouldn't care. He's not into strippers but I wouldn't be surprised if his friends decided to get one. I trust him so it's not a big deal.

Tracyc617

I agree with Reese.  I am not worried about strippers, I just home he comes home in one piece!

LindseyandMarc

Kewl then,
I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...

mbcdefg

To answer your question - no, I was not worried. If I had to worry about my husband in a situation like that, then I wouldn't have married him in the first place.

My only concern about the party was how the guys were getting home from the city after a night of drinking (not that I expected anyone to drive drunk, but getting a dozen drunk guys home sounds like a logistical nightmare), but they wound up renting a limo so that made me feel better.

The girls who DO publically nag their fiances/husbands about stuff like this are the ones who get ripped apart by the other people in the group. I've had girlfriends like that through the years who are insanely jealous/naggy/controlling of their guys, and the rest of us have usually referred to them as psychos. I never want to be "that girl."

If you (collective "you") have small concerns about a bachelor party, fine, but do the both of you a favor and talk about it in private, and don't mention the details to your buddies. People will have nothing good to say about you if you air your dirty laundry in public like that.

Gabriella26

Not worried at All! I trust my FI and although I am nervous about all the mischief that they are sure to get into, it just b/c I will have to take care of the hungover fella when he finally gets back Im positive Strippers will be involved which is fine with me b/c like I said I trust him...it's all in good fun and in the end he's coming home to me  

mcgoveer

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[QUOTE]My FI just called me now to say he's on his way to his bachelor party. I'm not worried at all. He's going away for the weekend to play paintball and drink. Honestly if a stripper showed up I really wouldn't care. He's not into strippers but I wouldn't be surprised if his friends decided to get one. I trust him so it's not a big deal.
Posted by littledaisies[/QUOTE]

I don't know how soon you guys are getting married but be careful with paintball!  I know people come back with big welts on them... may not look good in the wedding pictures :)

Heather822

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[QUOTE]Kewl then, I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]

<font color="#008080">What are you talking about!?!?
Is this somehow directed at my BParty post!?!?
You my friend are completely BSC. Please go back to where you came from, this board was much more enjoyable before you spawned.</font>

adam_dana

If you don't trust your FI, then you're not mature enough to get married.  Although the use of "kewl" was enough to indicate your maturity level.

uppereastgirl

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[QUOTE]Kewl then, I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]

<div>Is that supposed to be comprehensible?</div><div>
</div><div>Going back to your original post -- no, I was not worried.  My husband is not one to pay for bjs from strippers, so I didn't care if he got lap dances and such.  Trust is an important aspect of a relationship.  I understand why some women object to the idea of strippers in general from a feminist standpoint, but I think a lot of girls who can't deal with their men going to strip clubs either (a) have trust issues, (b) have self-esteem issues, (c) have a reason to not trust their bfs/fiances/husbands in the first place that they haven't shared, or (d) some combination of the above.  I've been to strip clubs many times and can tell you that most of the 20- and 30-somethings there were just there to have fun with their friends and not to cheat on their girlfriends.</div><div>
</div><div>BTW, I'm beginning to think our new friend is maybe MUD...</div>

cherylanddan0706

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[QUOTE]Kewl then, I personally Hate when a girl is all worried, says she isnt, but then her bachelorette party comes and she tries to compete....Like as if she ever was a drinker or a party girl... Besides its never the same, a guys friends are brutal when it come to these things...
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]

I do not care, you don't have to be a "big drinker or a partier" to go to a bach party or have one.  MH didn't even have a stripper at his, and if anyone even says "they try to compete" I wonder about them.

Please OP please (as MB said) stop yelling, stop using terms like "UR, Kewl" you are old enough to get married, be old enough to speak correctly.  It's great that you want to "stir the pot" but do it in a civilized manor stop attacking for no reason.

LindseyandMarc

HERE WE GO AGAIN!
Shall i get a mediator this time...
Look MR. Ed. I dont want to fight,
but i will if you dont run away again like earlier...

lknud819

i agree with uppereast, it has to be MUD because no one can really be like this

kasabby

Yikes--i was going to answer but I think we are beyond that at this point.

smw42

Hi LindseyandMarc- were you looking for advice of any sort from the girls here? They're great to help in the planning but if you're merely looking to get a rise out of everyone it may not be in your best interest.

LindseyandMarc

OK Moderator, maybe u should back up to the top of the convo, I wasnt looking to get a rise outta anyone... Not my fault MR. Ed followed me here and started her squaking.

LindseyandMarc

Lexapro my friend. It helps...

Lola Minnie

the OP doesn't even make any sense or sound like coherent English.

This is like the return of Crazy4u with a different name.  Same argumentative tone and poor English.

cherylanddan0706

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[QUOTE]OK Moderator, maybe u should back up to the top of the convo, I wasnt looking to get a rise outta anyone... Not my fault MR. Ed followed me here and started her squaking.
Posted by LindseyandMarc[/QUOTE]

Mr. Ed makes no sense my dear if you are going to try (miserably) to make fun of someone then be more funny, like your a twatwaffle, not Heather, you my "KEWL" friend.

VanessaB24

whos mud? and mr ed? and lola minnie... i agree with u about crazy4u but wasn't she supposed to get married 2 weeks ago? lol

smw42

MUD= made up drama

cherylanddan0706

MUD is "Made Up Drama" I believe she's trying to call Heather a bad name but failing miserably

Lola-I'm a little worried it is crazy4u, I think she wanted to end my life.