I have three bridesmaids and one maid of honor. Three of the four know each other relatively well, one bridesmaid has met the others, but does not know them that well. I'm really laid back about the dresses, but giving color advice. Three of these ladies have already bought their dresses and have been emailing eachother about their dresses. Obviously, they are excited, which makes me happy. Well, this final bridesmaid has not been saying anything on email (we all don't live in the same place) and last night she emails me and tells me that buying the dress and keeping up with the others is too much pressure. I guess she is hinting that she does not want to be a bridesmaid.
So, I email back and ask for her measurements and tell her i will help her find a dress and not to worry about the other girls, they are super girly.
My question is:
Should i let her quit? I mean, if she really doesn't want to be a bridesmaid, maybe I should let her back down? I think that she is doing this because she doesn't know them very well and they kind of grew up together.
What are your thoughts?
Thanks!