I am trying to put together a ceremony format because we are having a friend marry us who got ordained. I am a little confused about the intent and vows. Do you need both the "Do you take this person" and "I Do" section for intent and also to do the vows where you say "I take you to be my __." It seems to me that the vows show your intent and you don't need both but I could be wrong.
I hope I'm not coming off as an airhead but need help! My wedding is September 29th so it is crunch time!