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Wedding date has been pushed back again (3rd time)...

...and hopefully it will be for the last time. :)  The first date was this past April, the second date was this October, but after realizing that school has been very demanding for us both, we decided to push it back until February. Even though by then it would have been a 16 month engagement, I am really warming up to the idea of a cozy warm February wedding and reception.  It totally takes a load off trying to find outdoor venues, which I have been really stressing about for some months now and have caused me to drag behind the planning.  Better yet, our proposed date is February 18, 2012...the same date as our dating anniversary date 6 years ago. My fiance is big on numbers so by the time we get married, we would have completed 7 years of dating and would then start a new beginning as wife and husband into our 8th year together. This makes it so worth the wait! Also, the date would be the same backward and forward 2.18.12.

There is a reason for everything! Just a little post to encourage all of us then when things don't work the way we have initially planned during this wedding planning process (of life period), it will be ok and it still work out for the best in the end.  I would have never considered a winter wedding but after pushing back the date due to outside circumstances, the third date now has the most meaning to me and my fiance.

Once again, I am really excited about wedding planning again.  Plus my parents are ready to get this ball rolling...lol. :)  Expect to see a lot more of me around here. I am trying to plan a $10000 wedding for at most 150 guests in the Raleigh area.  I am a total DIY-er so I will be looking for lots of ideas for almost everything! :)

Kristal

Re: Wedding date has been pushed back again (3rd time)...

  • edited December 2011
    Glad you have it worked out! 16 months isn't bad and its actually pretty average. We have been engaged 21 months and it will be exactly 2 years from our engagement that we get married. At least you guys have your priorities straight and can now focus on school. Planning is a stressful process and you don't want it to affect your schoolwork. Congrats on getting things going and I can't wait to hear more along the way.
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    edited December 2011
    My engagement will have been 16 months when we get married in October. February will be great and definitely sets the stage for a warm and cozy wedding! Congrats and happy planning!!
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  • edited December 2011
    I was in the same situation that you were in. We got engaged this past November and had originally planned a December wedding. It was litterally the first weekend that we didn't have anything going on after FI finds out his bar results (our friends would kill us if we got married on a game day). So one night FI and I were talking and I was stressing and FI was like, "why can't we change the date?" So we did. Our date was originally 12.10.11 and now it's 6.30.12. It's six more months of planning and saving and time to enjoy it! We are slightly crazy though - his birthday is 6/24, mine is 6/25 (he's 2 years older) and then we're getting married 5 days later...
  • edited December 2011
    Glad you found a date that will work better with your life plans.  I was planning the wedding while working on my masters degree - and worrying about sending out invites and finishing a thesis simultaneously!  I was also engaged for 16 months, and while it's longer, I think a year or more is pretty average these days.  You'll get it all done and the day will be that much more special (especially with the meaning behind the date).  Congrats and happy planning, let us know if you need anything!
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  • edited December 2011
    Thanks ladies! At first I was concerned about pushing back the date because so many websites give this 12 month timeline from the engagement to the wedding. However, that timeline has not been that realistic for us. Plus, people asking us when we are getting married or what is the date or why we are taking so long has been kind of annoying. Glad to see that many of you understand our situation. I know that we still have a lot of work to get done with planning but having that extra four months help ALOT especially since I am a DIY type of person and would like to get some special projects completed.  Thank you all for your support! Laughing
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