Okay, so... I'm planning on having my wedding on a Friday in October (not this October, btw, next...) and I'm having trouble figuring out when to have the ceremony. I would rather do it early (noon ish or earlier...) but my mom seems to think I should do it later. I see reasons for both:
Having the ceremony later in the day gives guests more time to get there. Most of them will be out of towners, it is a weekday, and it's not a holiday, so people will have work/school to worry about... It would be more convenient for the guests if I have the ceremony later in the day.
On the other hand, I would simply prefer to have the ceremony earlier in the day. Our venue is a public garden and I suspect it won't be very busy early on, whereas it may get livelier (aka noisier) as the day wears on. Plus, I just don't want to have to wait very long to finally get married! :P I know, once I've waited that long, what difference will a few hours make? I just know myself and I know I'll get really antsy if I have too much waiting time. Of course, I could always plan on having something to do in that time, I'm sure there will be something...
There's also the issue of the reception/honeymoon. Truthfully, I don't want a reception that carries on into the wee hours of the night. I love all my guests and I do want a celebration with them, but I also want to get on with my honeymoon :P I'd rather get my traveling done sooner than later. Which would be easier if everything started earlier...
So here's my dilemma: It works better for my guests if it's later, but it works better for me if it's earlier... Am I being selfish if I start early? I feel like it's rude to make everyone rearrange their schedules for my day, but at the same time... It's my day. I'm just not sure how to proceed. If you have any advise I'd love to hear it