Is it rude not to include "and guest" or a plus one for a destination wedding? I was planning for everyone in a relationship to add their significant others name to the invite. We think the wedding is a pretty personal thing (plus it costs a ton haha) and I dont want a bunch of randoms there. But also since I am asking guests to travel and its like a vacation, is it rude to not allow them to bring someone? I guess they can travel with someone but that person just not attend the wedding??? Not really sure how to go about this. It would help GREATLY with the guest list numbers to NOT allow guests.