Hey girls

I posted about this a couple months ago, but I still need advice.
Our wedding is a short 6mos away! We are getting married in Cornelius at Jetton Park and have it until 9pm. We didn't know what to do afterwards and since most (if not all) of our guests are going to be from OOT (we are from Ohio) I wanted to show everyone a good time. We had initally planned to have transportation take everyone to and from our hotel from Uptown to the lake and back again, but the cost to do so is a liiiiitle steep to say the least. If we were to stay up in the Lake area, I need suggestions on:
1. Nice hotels in the Davidson, Cornelius, Huntersville area.
2. Entertaining places to go after the reception in the same areas. . . where are places you all like to hang out at? We live in Davidson, but have only been to the Rudder and places in Birkdale.
Thoughts? Recommendations? Or should we just stick to the initial plan, bite the bullet and go back Uptown? (I hate the fact of paying to park/cover charges, etc for our guests who have already spent the money to travel down to NC!)
HELP!