Here are a few ideas I have come up with. It is all going to depend on what you want to do and the type of party you want. First, Lucky Strike Bowling at Power and Light district. http://www.bowlluckystrike.com/ (Friend from work had husbands b-day there and said it was awesome. They serve real food vs. snack type food and it's adults only after 8p.m.) Second idea a pole dancing class. http://www.poleworx.com/kansas-city.htm Third, wine tasting dinner party. http://kansascity.about.com/od/nightlife/tp/KCWineTastings.htm Or you could do dinner and go out to the bars/clubs. There are a lot of bars/clubs at P&L or Westport in downtown KC area. You could go to a Royals game...sounds kind of stupid but usually turns out to be a fun time when you go with your girlfriends and have a couple drinks. Hope that helps you out some.