I recently held my wedding at the Flying Bridge and it was gorgeous. I do have to share that they do NOT have air conditioning. We didn't think to ask (we had our site visit over the winter). but this information was not volunteered either. It was a very humid evening and guests were very warm.
The food had definite high points and one low point, and customer service was underwhelming. I'd be happy to offer a candid assessment to help other brides in their planning! Here's my email: ithakasummer@yahoo.com.