Ok... so ill go ahead and admit it that im "that bride" whose parents are paying for the whole shi-bang since I will be fresh out of college when I get married. My parents have blessed me with more than I deserve and have paid WELL over the budget that I requested to have for the big day.
My future IL's are agreeing, with tradition, to pay for the rehearsal dinner and honeymoon. Our rehearsal dinner will be lovely and they have already booked the venue (did so a year in advance)... the topic of HONEYMOON has come up and this is where im getting a little irritated.
My fiance and I knew that they would be clueless when it came to the HM, being that they hardly ever take vacations and havnt really ever booked one (he is a third generation football and baseball coach- they spend their summers playing ball- not vacationing) So we found this awesome resort offereng all-inclusive in Jamaica for 2000. Flat. Our airfare is a wedding gift from my FI's aunt, who works with AA.
We presented the honeymoon idea to his parents and they responded with "Well, we were going to get yall a few nights in the Marriot in Marco Island, FL." By few, he meant Sun, Mon, and Tue night. We pay for food and everything else. Their reasoning was that we would both be teaching and didnt need to take that whole week for our honeymoon. Um. Is that THEIR say whether we take off or not? So basically, theyre set on just getting us a few nights at the hotel (which is 1300) and not listening to our request for Jamica which is only a few hundred more AND all-inclusive.
Should we
a. take their 1300 and pay the rest in our own money for Jamica
b. go on their three day HM idea
c. have my parents, who tell us we NEED to take a week and will be more than willing to pay for our HM, pay
I hope this doesnt come across sounding like I feel I have a right for people to pay for this, I AM extremly grateful that our parents have offered to do this so we can focus our money (the litttle we will have) on rent and getting on our feet. Im just not sure why they are set on paying for only three nights somewhere because they believe we shouldnt take a whole week off. (IM TAKING IT ALL OFF REGARDLESS!)