blessing in disguise...

jenniferb77

had two people cancel last minute (issues that are not their fault at all). so i contacted my chapel (yay vegas) to let them know. they could not issue a refund, but i was able to take the credit and apply it to a larger photo package. the difference was $12 after tax.

im sad these people wont be able to come, but its nice knowing i can have more photos

Mo2T&O

It's too bad that people had to cancel but like you said, the extra photos will be nice. You have such a great attitude towards the situation! Congrats : )

ellentravis

That's awesome and I know how you feel! We had three cancel this weekend, and I thought, "YES! MORE FOR THE HONEYMOON!!!"

jenniferb77

i also thought "woohoo more cake!" i am trying to find the positive in everything. for a while i was stressing out over the stupidest crap that was totally inconsequential. looking at the bright side has let me sleep again.

ellentravis

jenniferb77 -- we have reached the same point of zen! Good luck to you! This crap is stressful! I am so ridden with anxiety I can't sotp stuffing my face!! I am undoing all the hard work I did!!

jenniferb77

i find if i have something in my hands i dont fret so much or crave cigarettes (i quit smoking years ago, but situations like this make me want one). right now i am making wine glass charms to go into my goody baskets for my guests.

and i get a call from my fiance that he went in to men's wearhouse today and picked up pocket squares. i had asked him weeks ago, but let it go in the light of it not being terribly important. i guess they were having their buy one get one free thing again. he spent $11 out the door for a white and a red pocket square.

ps: urban decay's eden eye primer COMPLETELY covers my dark circles without having to use a concealer.

ellentravis

Jenniferb77 -- you have ALL the good tips!! Good luck!!