This may seem like a really dumb question, but, my MOH is insisting that I invite girls to the shower that I am NOT inviting to the wedding. We are on a rather tight budget, and, had to limit who we invited to the wedding. Now, when it comes time to make out the guestlist for the shower, my MOH is treating me like a moron because "old" friends aren't on the shower guestlist. Because they were "old" friends (who I have lost touch with recently) they were not invited to the wedding, so, therefore I consider it tacky to invite them to the shower, just becaus, (and this is a direct quote from my MOH!!!!) "More people = More Presents!!!!"