As many of you know, our engagement party was last weekend. We made everyone aware of the date well in advance (about 6 weeks notice). We know people are very busy, but also because the party was going to be all weekend at FI's house which is a couple hours away for my family. Some people were going to stay the entire weekend, others were coming for day. Still other people wanted to stay in a nearby hotel and make a getaway out of it.
My grandma came to the house about a month ago for the very first time. She said she wouldn't be there for the engagement party because it's too far of a drive...bothers her back, etc. My aunt who has never been there also said that was too far of a drive. I understood with the price of gas and all. I was a little hurt, but didn't push it. It turns out, my aunt and grandma drove an hour and a half further than where the party was last weekend, so basically they lied to me. My mom wanted to go with them and obviously my aunt didn't want her to go, so they picked the weekend of my party knowing my mom wouldn't miss my party. All this and they don't understand why I'm angry. Oh did I mention, I live with my grandma, so you'd think she'd really want to be there for me?!