My fiance scott and I picked our wedding date before anyone. His older cousin went and booked her wedding the weekend after the day we picked. Now some of the family[ a couple people are going to both] is saying we have to change our since they don't want to take off 2 days in a week period(we wanted march 4th..she booked march 11 and lives 2 hours away), or they won't go to ours?! Do we change ours or not? We haven't booked the venue yet but can't decided what to do!! Should we say fine, your loss? We are lost =/.