Lately I have been thinking about inviting about 30 people to our beach wedding in FL. FI doesn't really want anyone to go he feels that if are going to invite people then we need to do at home. It's a lot more expensive at home. My parents are separated right now so who knows what will happen btwn them. The next issue is FI mom wont leave the state of TN.... She asked us why don't we just go to the court house and get it over with. My response was because I am doing this one time and one time only and I want to do it the right way. I know that whatever happens btwn my parents they will both be there for me on the day of no matter what... I will fill really bad if my parents show up and FI doesn't... I am just needing some advice on what you would do.....