Ok, so I'm not so much having trouble with the hair style I want for the wedding but more the hair color.
My hair is naturally blonde but I've been going back and forth between red and blonde for the last 8 years or so. Right now is blonde but I'm kind of sick of it and don't think it's super flattering. Particularly when my hair is back (like it will be for the wedding) I feel like I look like I have no hair because it's so light and thin.
My MOH keeps telling me to keep it blonde because it's more classic and my FI says the red may look like too much with my pale skin and and all white dress (though he generally really likes it red).
Anyway, I'm stuck so I would love your opinions! For reference, here are photos of me with blonde and a brownish red. Please forgive how rough I look in the red hair picture, lol.