My fiance accidentally let it slip that my BMs and mom were looking to have my bridal shower in October. That' 5 1/2 months ahead of our wedding! I feel like it's way too early. I'm kind of upset 1) because it's early and 2) October is the busiest month for me at work. I'm working every single weekend. You would think they would ask me what my work schedule looked like before thinking about dates. Am I just being a b!tch or is this ridiculously early? Every shower I've ever been to has been no more than 3 months in advance.