We sent our save the dates out the other week, and I was at a family b-day party the other day and one of my cousins asked if kids were invited. I told her no, it is adults only. She over reacted "well I can't go, I don't have a babysitter." I named off a few people that she could use (including the woman who watches her son during the day while she works) and said you have 6 months, you can find a sitter.
I just hope I don't get a lot of these reactions. Sorry adding kids would mean another 35+ and that is just the # of the top of my head and we aren't throwing a family reunion.