So, huge check today! I picked my DJ. I am going to get the contract in the morning! :-) I heard back from all of his references, and they all agreed that I would be crazy not to go with him. One is a DJ herself, and said "If it can't be me, he is the only one I would suggest." I took that to be a great sign!
And, when I told my FMIL, she told me she had news too. They are signing the contract on Monday to reserve the place for our rehearsal dinner! YAY! Two big things checked off. Happy Thursday!