My wedding is March 25th...and I was planning on having my invitations out by the end of November. My FI infomed me tonight that he's talked to "a lot" of people and they said that Novemeber was wayyy to early. Even though his sister told me she wanted a head count for the cake by january. And there are a few things that I want to wait and do until I get a final head count and I'd rather not wait too much later than January to do so. SO....when are you guys sending out your invitaions? How early/late is TOO early/late?