Hello - I'm a lurker here mostly, but am looking for thoughts.

I had my first fitting a week ago and feel like I'm so lost when it comes to bustles...I never thought about them until then!
She showed me so many options...I think I'm going with some sort of french bustle, though, my dress is lace.
What sort of dress do you have and what sort of bustle are you getting? Anyone else have a lace dress?