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zaogirlo5

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KJPugs

Holy cow! Did he say anything specific about what they didn't like? How RUDE, even if you don't like something about a wedding you would just make a mental note not to do it yourself, not TELL THEM YOU HATED IT! Did they get you a gift?

topchef33

Wow...that is EXTREMELY rude!!! I don't see how he could have hated your wedding since he was barely there! What did he hate about it?And I'd be even more pissed that they skipped the reception, esp. after he pretty much invited himself and you were okay w/it. People who haven't planned a wedding have no idea how much things cost!Are you going to say anything to him when you see him? He'd be on my sh*t list from now on lol.

Chrissy3321

That is pretty rude.  I can look back at a couple like that I wish we never would have invited.I would try and cut ties with him.

Married678

How RUDE!! I'm glad you kinda got to tell him off, in some way! Telling him what a waste of money he was at your reception is a good smack in the face, IMO!The only things I heard and I felt was rude about our wedding was my MIL complaining about our pastor. Which was my best friend's dad (she knew this!!) . He did suck. I think he had a small stroke, so does my friend and her husband!:( But, I took it offensively (probably more so coming from her) but really, like I didn't notice him mumbling, etc! Come on!! I didn't want to hear it!! Ugh! People are soo rude!!Sorry, Zaogirl!

KJPugs

Zaogirl, I do a TON with pugs (pug rescue, etc) and there are a group of pug people from our meetup and two of them in particular are VERY socially awkward (and they're all older than FI and I by a lot, and married.) One of the two socially awkward ones INVITED THE WHOLE PUG GROUP to the wedding (talked about how they can't wait, etc) when really I just see them for pug stuff. With husbands and kids we were talking 2 + more tables... which we didn't have $$ for or ROOM for. I eventually had to break it to them that we were having a mostly family wedding (actually true) and everyone but one of the socially awk people were like OH that's totally fine... but the ONE awk person was like well FYI 1/3 of ppl won't come so only plan on 66% of who you invite actually coming. WHAT?! I hate when people invite themselves just because you know them through a hobby.