You have a dream about it.
Seriously, had a dream that Facebook kept suggesting Amethyst as a friend to me (I think we are already friends? I don't know I forget?) but she didn't want anyone to learn her real name, so we went on a field trip to California to find Mark Zuckerberg and tell him to stop suggesting her as friends to people.
*Okay, so maybe you don't get her a ring. Maybe you-maybe you do something different. You know? Maybe you get her an engagement bracelet? Or an engagement tiara? Or... ooh! An engagement Revolutionary War musket! *