I'm on the larger size, an 18, but down from the size 28 I was back when FI and I first met and became friends. I happened to lose weight over the 5 years we were out of touch but he's never said too much about my weight loss. I know he loves me with all his heart, regardless of my size or lack of make up or grungy clothes. But I'm struggling with the thought of true intimacy with him read between the lines here. Even when we're snuggling on the couch together and he's caressing my love handles I can feel myself shying away inside. I truly am looking forward to our marriage, both days and nights, only
four more days! But how do you move beyond being overly sensitive and embarrassed about the extra weight? I'm sure part of my issues stem from my first marriage and the way my ex husband treated me about my weight, but sheesh! We've been divorced for 18 years!!! Any words of advice for me?