I always pictured my dress with sleeves... always! I'm a size 18, more broad than "big". I hate that number though, HATE IT. I am having sleeves put on my dress and am so afraid I'm going to look bulky and with long-term hormone issues (my body ages like someone older than me and get fat in areas I shouldn't right now) I feel like a beeched whale. I'm afraid I'm not going to be the beautiful bride I want to be...
How to deal?