If this has already been posted somewhere, my apologies. I feel the need to vent, and possibly if anyone has any suggestions they can pass along on places to look, I'd be eternally grateful.
My fiance and I moved to NC in September, but got engaged right after Thanksgiving. We live three hours away from my closest bridesmaid, and a three hour flight from everyone else (mom, MOH, etc). A few weeks ago, in my excitement at getting the ball rolling I made a few appointments at bridal shops in the area that carry the designers or styles I like, and since our wedding is now around six months away, have been going in alone to get a start on things.
The first shop I stopped in was a glorified boutique, and when I entered the door and spoke with the saleswoman about what I was looking for, she says bluntly: "we don't have anything that will fit someone in your size" and when I inquired about getting something in my size, she said "it's not worth it to us to order it." So I went to the back, looked at some bridesmaids dresses, and left.
The next shop I went to was a consignment, where there were tons of dresses to try on in my size, but none fit the type of dress that I was looking for.
I figured I'd stop in at a chain, and when I mentioned the possibility of looking at bridesmaids dresses for a bridal gown, the salesperson saw their commission disappear and she became less helpful. To the point of just pointing me towards my dressing room and helping others fifteen minutes into my appointment.
After that, I stopped at another store, tried on a bunch of dresses, found a few that I liked, but when I asked if I could take photos of the dresses so my mom and/or bridal party could weigh in, I was told that the designers don't want photos of their dresses out in public unless I had made a purchase.
So here I am now, absolutely HATING the search for my wedding dress. I could be over-reacting, but I'm not really sure where to start looking for size 20 dresses. I don't want to be forced into wearing a specific dress because I couldn't find anything else in my size, but I'm feeling like that's the case. I'm so bummed right now it's not funny. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can make dress shopping at a distance and as a larger lady any easier?