So I think I may have mentioned in the past that my guest list is getting out of control. My venue can accommodate "around 100" people. My original guest list was 105 people and figuring on at least a 10% regret rate, I thought we'd be all set. Well, after booking the venue I was informed that it would cause lots of hard feelings if I didn't invite my step siblings who I don't have a particularly close relationship with and since there are 6 of them, all of whom are married and several of whom have adult children, that added 15 people to my list. Then my FI's grandmother called my FMIL demanding to know why her sister and brother in law hadn't gotten an invitation... FI had agreed that we could eliminate great aunts/uncles, second cousins, distant relatives that he hadn't seen in years from the list, but now FMIL agrees with her mother that it would be rude not to invite them, especially since her mother has now told them that she'd make sure they got an invite. Seriously? To add to that, FI's only single groomsman told him today that he had used our wedding as an excuse to ask one of his coworkers on a date. Another GM called today and said that a really close friend of FI's from high school who neither of them has seen or heard from in 2 years just moved back to the area, heard through the grapevine about the wedding, and offered to host FI's bachelor party at his parents' lake house... he wasn't going to be invited to the wedding, but he can't exactly host the bachelor party and not get an invite... Due to these and several other similar situations, my guest list has grown to 130 people. If more than 110 people actually come, there simply will not be room for everyone. Period. FML.