Ok, so I've been looking at photographers and have set up a few appointments. However, my cousin is a photographer (she went to school for it and has been doing weddings for a few years). She's offered to be our photographer, and would only charge us for the album. It's an EXTREMELY generous offer!! She says that she doesn't mind not being a guest and says that she will still have a great time. This has become a big issue for us. I still think that she should come as a guest, and not have to work at our wedding. On top of that if I don't like her work (not saying that I won't, but there's always a chance) I'll be mad at my cousin and not just a photographer. My FI thinks I'm being unrealistic and should book my cousin. My parents also think I'm overlooking a generous offer and could spend the money on other items. I don't know what to do?? Would you hire your family??