So our target guest list is 150. I have a very large family and feel i did a good job only inviting those I am truley close to (or obligated by family) my finace on the other hand has invited everyone who has ever crossed a path in his life (seriously!) our guest list is still at 213 even after cutting. Our save the dates are going out next week and Im scared we are going to end upi wth way too many people!!! I wish I knew how many would actually show up... And is there any argument I havent tried on my fiance? ???