I am totally confused about the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner...Would it be too much to do the day before the wedding? How much time do we need to actually "rehearse"? Do we need to be at the actual venue to "rehearse"? Who should be invited outside the wedding party and our parents?
I was thinking about a casual lunch bbq for a rehearsal at my future in-laws' the day before the wedding so that my fiance's family can travel a day early to come to the party if they please and then go out with my fiance the night before the wedding while I, and who ever will go with me, go to the venue to decorate. Does this seem like a good idea?