So, I became a member of the knot to get new ideas and to chat with people involved with the wedding process. At times I get pulled into other board conversations while looking for something. Recently I was reading one about open bars vs. cash bars. People were so insistent that cash bars were incredibly rude. Some times the whole wedding etiquette is a little much for me. I have never been to an open bar wedding in Maine and I have been to a bunch. They said it had nothing to do with location it had to do with "social circles". I am not offended by a cash bar, it's just what a lot of people can afford.