I can't believe it, but we got our first wedding gift this week!! The wedding is not until October, but a cousin of mine in California sent a gift already!! This may sound silly, but it's a super-cool toaster from BB&B!! I want to use it NOW, but my FI said we have to wait until after the wedding. I think it's because he's jealous and wants to use it and we have two separate homes. What's the rule on using gifts before the wedding? Can I unpack it and make some awesome toast?? :-)