So this is one of the reasons I HATE save the dates. I found out recently that one of the girls at work who I thought was a friend of mine is doing nothing but talk badly about me at work. I have asked her point blank what is with all the talking behind my back, she lied straight to my face. I did invite her to the wedding via save the date but do not want to have such a back stabber at my wedding. Is it wrong not to give her an invite? What to do?