I figured there has to be at least ONE other bride out there like me who is having this dilemma/idea storm.
My mother seems to keep getting upset whenever we talk about wedding planning. No it isn't about budget, it doesn't have to do with the guest list, it isn't even intergrating-family drama.
She gets upset when I talk about the details.
The discussion of a late night snack, went straight to a fight. Mentionining ringing bells instead of throwing something, I got this sort of nondescript sinking into a coma response. Incorporating 'A Dream is A Wish Your Heart Makes' into the ceremony? I get lectured about "putting on a production".
Eventually I asked her why she was harshing my wedding buzz (in not so brusque a tone) and it turns out that the details were overwhelming her and now we have an understanding that I am going to get hit with inspiration every now and then and talk about it, but it doen't mean that its going to happen, set in stone, go find little silver bells on amazon.
This isn't a thread so much to complain about my mother (haha), but do you find this happening to you? What are your fun details? Or are you a completely goal oriented bride who won't touch the details until the big things are out of the way?