[I just posted this about 20 min ago, then it disappeared after 5 minutes or so. I hope it doesn't reappear later as a double post.]
FI and I just got "formally" engaged at the beginning of this month (the date has been set for awhile, but I just got my ring and we made the announcement a few weeks ago). Literally within 24 hours of announcing our engagement, we had 3 different offers to host showers for me (3 different areas of our lives: his family, my family, and work - we work together actually; ideally we will keep these groups separate for showers due to the large number of invitees). We feel so blessed and grateful that everyone is as thrilled as we are and have so generously offered to host showers.
The problem is this (if you want to call it that): over the last couple of weeks I have had offers from others to host showers. How do I appropriately and graciously deal with these newest offers? Do I let the original offerors know that others would like to help them? The people who are now offering do not really know the original offerors. Is it incumbent upon me to try and make sure everyone who has offered is involved and to sort out the logistics and personality dynamics? I believe that all involved will be understanding at the end of the day, but I am feeling alot of pressure over this (that I am putting on myself). I guess I feel as though the original offerors sort of called shotgun on hosting (I did graciously say thank you so much for the offer and tried to put them off a bit on details since I was a bit overwhelmed in the first couple of days of our engagement), and none of them have said anything like let me know if anyone else offers to help. Do I just put them in contact with each other and let them sort it out?
Any advice would be appreciated!