So, I've been debating inviting my boss for a LONG time. a very LONG time. here's the facts:
1. he has been my boss for two years, so he has known my like backstory of when we bought a house, when we got engaged, etc. he has been very into hearing about my wedding planning I think just because he is a genuine person (and he helped plan his own) and I consider him a good friend. He is about 15 years older than me, is married and has kids, but I think that if he was closer in age and not my boss, we would probably hang out more with him and his wife.
2. i have hung out with him on occasion, mostly at work events, but a couple times we organized a happy hour event for our group. he has met dan a couple times at these functions.
3. i've received christmas cards from his family, seen pictures of his kids, heard stories about them, etc. our relationship is not solely boss-employee, i would consider him a friend.
4. i am not inviting anyone else from work, i am just not that close to anyone.
5. dan is only inviting one work friend and his wife, but they are our age and we have gone on a couple double-dates with them.
so, will it be weird to just invite my boss and his family? will it look like i'm sucking up? it's just that he is the only person i feel sort of close to at work, and i have shared a lot of my wedding planning and ideas with him. i'm not sure who they would sit with, but when i think about it, i think i would like to have them there sharing this day with us.
FWIW, Dan's boss will also be there, but that is because he is really good friends with my Dad, so my dad is inviting him, not dan.
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The Whimsical Wifey