We are getting married August 18th. We have a budget that we are trying to stay in as we don't want to go over (as I'm sure alot of brides can relate to)
Here is my issue. My fiances uncle will be marrying us. The only reason why he is marrying us is because it's his uncle. We aren't religious, we don't go to his church etc. He will be traveling (with his wife) for the wedding. I would assume that he would be making the trip even if he wasn't marrying us.
A couple months ago while we were on skype going over our wedding course material, he asked if we would be willing to help with his flight. Feeling like we were in a tight spot, and couldn't say no my fiancee said yes (thinking that it would be max $200 to "help"). We have now found out he expects us to pay for his whole flight which is over $500. To some of you this might not seem like much, but to us it is alot as it wasn't in our budget. He will be staying with my future inlaws and therefore won't be having a hotel or food bill while here. If he would have told us in the begining that he would marry us but we must pay for the flight, we would have taken it into consideration and got JOP probably.
What would you do in this situation? My fiancee thinks it's too late to say something. Do we tell him we can't afford it and try to find someone else to marry us? To me that would be a huge slap in the face. I don't even think talking to him would make a difference as we agreed to help. I feel as if he is taking advange of us.