Well FI let my FFIL (if you been following the tale, this is the man who hates me without a reason) know that we are moving back into the city possibly in a few weeks before the wedding. Well that convo didn't go well at all! FFIL threw as massive oak tree on these camels backs that broke us both down. Said it was all MY FAULT that we are moving, I am leading him down a path of destruction and get this, putting a wedge between him and my FI. I finally for the first time ever heard this out of his mouth (I was on speaker phone and FFIL had no clue I was) and I am completely speechless and want to call off the wedding because of this. Goes on to tell FI I was doing all this to help you out (which we both believe this isnt about FI) and other crap.
Telling my FI he is leaving him high and dry and abandoning him! FI never once got a chance to even tell him that he would still help him from time to time with the businesses and what not but only when we are not busy as a married couple. He never once got to get that out his mouth. So right now we both feel like crap and I already told him I want to call this whole wedding off and just go our own ways because nothing is going to change about the way FFIL feels about me.
I know I didn't have a hand in any of the decisions that FI made in regards to the family businesses and it hurts me to the core that FFIL blames me for all of this happening. Havent even taken my high blood pressure pill this morning I feel so sick to my stomach about all of this.
Sorry for the long vent....had to get this out so I can make it the rest of the work day. *sighs*
