FI and I were long distance for 6 weeks. It was supposed to be for 7 months so I had kinda developed a new routine. Having him back has been great in a lot of ways of course. But there are a few things I didn't realize I had gotten used to! For one, I was just more efficient when he wasn't around. Among work, school, and wedding stuff I was in straight go-mode for 6 weeks. There were no problems, only solutions. I was ahead in my school work and able to do wedding stuff mid week! Now I can't find stuff (he came home and his truck basically threw up in our room because he just dumped stuff), or because I want to spend time with him, things don't get done as quickly as they were. They will still get done and spending time with him is more valuable to me but I have to retrain my brain to accept that not everything I want to get done tonight will get done.
Another big adjustment has been sleeping. We are big spooners. We cuddle all night. But I have apparently gotten a little use to having some space in the bed or FI thinks I'm going to run away in the middle of the night haha. Because he hasn't just been spooning me, so much as sleeping on top of me! He'll throw his whole leg over me so his hip is on top of my hip basically. And when he's sleeping it's just dead weight! I can't wiggle around at all. I love that he's a cuddler and doesn't scootch to the other side of the bed once I fall asleep but it seems like I need a little more room and he needs less!
It's not a fight worth having because I'm still sleeping okay (not great but not bad either) and he's only been back a week so I know we'll adjust. Also, sleeping next to each other has always been a big thing for us (he has on several occasions flown or driven for hours just to sleep next to me) so I think he'd take it really hard. I just had to get it out there though because last night in the middle of the night I wanted to shove him which would be no good haha (and probably not affective since he's so much bigger than me). We are great all around but sometimes the little things just get me!