I'm so done with this wedding crap. I'm sick of all the drama and problems we are having, none of which is anything we have done... it's all other people.
I went to my cousin's wedding this weekend. It was nice (reception was weird but thats another topic), but my brother came into town with his FI. They made stuck up, snarky comments about everything the whole time, and a number were directed at us. At one point, i was so upset by the relentless attack on our wedding that I was actually bummed out, and not enjoying myself at all. My brother's FI even said the centerpieces at this wedding were "cheap" and said she intended to spend money where it mattered, and get floral centerpieces, not chinsy ones. RUDE! She made sarcastic comments about the music I was planning to have, and my brother told someone that we "stole" their date (keep in mind, we picked our date before they were even engaged).
I played phone tag with the BM who is supposed to be ordering the dresses. She called me back but I was at the wedding so I didn't have my phone on me. I tried calling her the next day but no answer. She didn't leave a message saying the dresses have/have not been ordered, so I don't know what's going on, at all. I told FSIL about the dilema and she snapped at me, saying "Oh don't be that way!!!!!" My FI stood up for me though, and explained to her the problems we have had involving the WP. She just rolled her eyes, as if I am asking too much to have some damn dresses ordered.
I felt so sad too, watching the BMs help the bride with everything. They fixed her dress, held things for her, and gathered people who needed to be gathered for pics. I know mine won't be like that, and its hurtful. I didn't ask too much of anyone. Our wedding is low key. I was 100% flexible, even when i should not have been. Now I don't even know if I have BMs, since i haven't spoken to any of them in probably over a month.
*sigh* sorry for the vent.