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Sad news

I really don't want to talk or type about it but I'm in the process of miscarrying the baby.  I wanted to put it out there because most of you would have figured it out by my lack of ticker.  I'm semi-emotionally-stable right now because the physical pain of the m/c is distracting me and I'd rather tell you all while I'm at home then have it come up when I'm at work tomorrow.Long story short, everything stopped growing at 5.5 weeks.  I should have been at 9.5 weeks.  I knew something was wrong, I can't explain it but I knew.  When I went in for the sonogram (that my doctor only ordered because I was insistent that something was wrong) yesterday I was fully expecting the worst.  I had been spotting but had no other outward symptoms of problems.  It fuucking sucks.  It's really the only way to describe it.
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    edited December 2011
    Oh, Stace, I'm so sorry.  I can't imagine what that feels like for you (physically or emotionally), but please know I'm thinking of you and your DH and sending hugs your way. I'm so sorry.
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry stace.
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    McBridetobeMcBridetobe member
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    edited December 2011
    It does fuucking suck.  Hugs.
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry Stace.  Lots of {{HUGS}}
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    edited December 2011
    Oh Stace. I am SO sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts and prayers, sweetie.
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    hey_its_jennhey_its_jenn member
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    edited December 2011
    So many hugs for you and DH.  There's nothing I can say to make you feel better but just know that you're in my thoughts and prayers, hun.  Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.  Anything at all!  I heart you.  A lot.


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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry, Stace.  Many thoughts and prayers to you.
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    edited December 2011
    Oh no, my heart is breaking for you!  I can't even imagine what you're going through right now.  I know you were concerned the last time I saw you and I'm so sorry this is happening.  :(  Hugs to you and your DH and let me know if you ever need anything!
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    edited December 2011
    I am really sorry to hear this. I'll keep you and your DH in my thoughts and prayers. I'm very sorry.
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    jennybean2010jennybean2010 member
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    edited December 2011
    oh stace, i am so so so sorry. lots of hugs to you and your DH during this difficult time.
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    edited December 2011
    oh no Stace.  I'm so sorry to hear this. vibes and prayers to you and your DH.  I'm so so sorry you have to go through this. If you need anything- just let me know
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    cobrien1976cobrien1976 member
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    edited December 2011
    Stace, you and DH are in my thoughts during this difficult time.  Many ((((hugs))).
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry to read this. Sending many comforting prayers and vibes your way- I hope they can give you the strength to get through this.
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    edited December 2011
    Stace - You have soooo much love coming from my direction.
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    ((hugs!))
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    jlryan1jlryan1 member
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    I am SO sorry, Stace. I can't even imagine. I'm thinking of you and praying for you. Lots and lots of hugs.
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    edited December 2011
    Stace - hugs and prayers your way. So sorry....
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    LaFemmeRousseLaFemmeRousse member
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    I'm so so sorry.  Prayers for you and your husband. 
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    Sending all the love I have your way.
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    edited December 2011
    Very, very sorry for you and your DH. **Hugs**You're in my thoughts, Stace. I also know that the Pregnancy Loss board on the Nest helped a friend of mine a lot if you haven't checked it out already.Again, I'm really sorry.
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    SteelrsGrl92SteelrsGrl92 member
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    Stacey. I am so sorry. You & your DH are in my thoughts and prayers. (((hugs)))
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    edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh, I am so sorry to hear that.  Sending lots&lots&lots&lots of prayers your way that you and DH can get through this.  Just know that everything happens for a reason.  Keep your head held high.  ((((hugs))))
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    edited December 2011
    Stace I am so sorry. :( Many hugs and vibes to get through this!
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    LisaS1010LisaS1010 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear your going through this.  You and DH are in my thoughts and prayers.
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    Oh, Stace, I'm so sorry for you and your DH.  Many thoughts and prayers and vibes for you to get through this terrible time. {{Hugs}}
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    dvanskydvansky member
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    edited December 2011
    So sorry to hear this. Lots of thoughts and prayers for you and your DH.
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    elishanbelishanb member
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    I very sorry to hear of you and your DH's loss. thinking good thoughts for the future and lots of love and prayers for the present.
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    EmilyBerdellEmilyBerdell member
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    Oh Stacey. I'm so sorry to hear your news. Sending lots of prayers for you and your DH.
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    Stace I am so sorry. Sending you lots of prayers and hugs.
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    themissizzthemissizz member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks everyone.  I appreciate all your thoughts and concern.
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