FI and I just came back from Clearwater, where his brother was married on the beach. We had this idea of a beautiful ceremony with an ocean backdrop, like the kind you see in movies. It was far from it though. There was no rehearsal, no music, no chairs, no flowers (unless you count the preacher that was wearing a hawaiian shirt). There was litter on the ground, fire ants crawling on our feet, and general disorganization. Nothing against destination weddings, as I assume not all are like this. We both agree after sharing this experience, that wedding planning is so much sweeter. FI keeps asking what we can do next. It’s great to finally be home!!