first let me say i have no personal prob with cousin K...she is getting married in california where she resides....ever since cousin K was born grandma has been rubbing her in my face. How perfect she is ..all her acomplishments blah blah blah...my relationship with my gram has never been the same. cousin K and all family are coming up for the 4th and the family is throwing her a bridal shower...i was asked to combine mine with hers but i kindly declined since she was younger and starting her life she could use the shower more than me. I posted a informal headcount of ppl attending the wedding and of course all my friends are attending but not one person besides mom dad and sisters of my family has responded....however they have all responded to going to her bridal shower....i feel like a piece of crap. and i dont know how to handle this?