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September 2012 Weddings

Happy Guest List Surprises!

My great-aunt will be able to make the wedding!  She's almost 90 years old and lives in Dublin, and she'll be flying in to come to the wedding.  I am SO excited!

My grandparents convinced her to come by promising that they would fly back to Ireland with her afterwards as she hates traveling alone (she's my grandfather's older sister, so my grandparents are a little more capable of moving luggage and navigating an airport as they're a few years younger).

It's also nice as my grandfather was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's, and this might be the last time he can take a trip home to Ireland where he grew up. 

I'm really thrilled my aunt can come, and thrilled my grandfather can take another trip to Ireland.  I'm humbled that they're all doing this for me.  This aunt has no children, but she's always been like another grandparent to me.  She also was my after-school babysitter for several years.  About 5 years ago while I was bumming around Europe, I spent 2 weeks at her house.  I miss her dearly, and I have been afraid that I wouldn't get FI over to Ireland soon enough to meet her (she's getting older and has health problems).  It means the world to me that he'll get to meet her.

Oh!  And one of my good friends is deployed currently, but he might be back on an R&R (basically a 2 week vacation from war) and he and his wife might come to the wedding.

Have you had any happy surprises with the guest list?  Guests you didn't think could make it but were happy to find out they can?

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Re: Happy Guest List Surprises!

  • That is so awesome to hear!  I love hearing stories like that.  My invites went out yesterday so no news like that yet, but I'm so happy for you, your great aunt, and your grandparents!

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  • I kinda have one.  My brother is a collegiate football player.  He is the second string quarterback so he has a huge responsibility and committment but doesn't see much playing time.  Of course they have an important Away game the same day as our wedding.  So it was going to come down to the week before....if the other quarterback was healthy and my brotherwasn't getting to play, he would come to the wedding.  But, if he was getting field time, he wasn't going to make it.

    Well, my brother just tore his ACL!  I'm so upset for him and am still kinda in denial because football is his life.  So I don't want to say it is a "Happy" Guest List Surprise but he will for sure be making it to the wedding since he still won't be able to play.  I'm am thrilled to have my brother be there and support us on this special day but I so wish it was under different circumstances. 
  • My cousins husband is a firefighter and with all the fires going on in CO we assumed he would not make it. But he says unless it is a huge fire that is devasting the time of the wedding he will be there-he is working extra long hours right now. 

    My grandmother has been really sick lately taking care of my grandfather and having only one good lung but she said she will try and make it which we assumed they would not be coming recently-so hopefully they will make it.
  • egm900egm900 member
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    My mom's best friend's husband was recently diagnosed with a difficult cancer and is being treated several states away, so they thought they wouldn't be able to come.  He's responding well to treatment, has a good prognosis, and his doctors think he will be allowed to come home in plenty of time for the wedding, so they RSVPed yes.  It was really a double happy surprise!
  • So happy for everyone and their happy guest list announcements!

    We've only had 2 'no's' so far... but one is kind of a bummer. It's my really, really good college friend whom I haven't seen in more than a year. We have stayed in contact via email/text/FB ever since college a few years ago... and I've been wondering if she'll be a lifelong friend or not. Unfortunately, she responded 'no' to my wedding. I totally understand she can't come (she lives 6 hours away and started a new job recently), but the fact that she didn't call me or email me to let me know/give me a head's up pretty much means we won't really be friends in the future. :( I mean, it's the most important day of my life. I understand you can't make it... but call me!
  • Aw, I definitely got teary eyed reading everyone's happy news. 

    I have the opposite problem - I'm sad about those who can't make it. Even though it's obvious and it's been obvious for many months that my mom wouldn't be well enough to make it (she had early onset dementia) it still breaks my heart. Now my younger brother has all but disappeared and recently admitted he's using drugs again so I honestly have no idea if he'll be at the wedding. 
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  • happy you guys are getting good responses!

    So far our estimated guest list is lining up with the answers we've been receiving. we're waiting for the surprise yeses and nos to start appearing.
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