September 2012 Weddings

Bridal Shower

So I need your opinion girls...my future grandmother in law wants to throw me a shower for my fiance's side of the family...then my maid of honor my sister wants to throw me one for my friends/bridesmaids and then my family on my dad's side...then my aunt and grandma want to throw me one for my mom's side of the family.  Is that too many?  I don't think so but everyone keeps on sounding like its weird.  I can't help if they all want to throw me showers.  What's your opinion?

Re: Bridal Shower

  • As long as not all the same people are being invited to all three, I say go for it!!
  • I agree, I don't think it's the number of showers that matter, as long as people aren't being invited to more than one shower I'd say your fine.
  • SCogs18SCogs18 member
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    As long as there are different people invited to these showers, I think it's totally fine!  I'm currently having one shower, thrown by my mom's best friends for my friends and my mom's friends.  I'm inviting FMIL and Step-FMIL, but no one else from FI's side.  I would really love someone on FI's side to throw me a shower for their family, but no one has offered, and I feel like it would be really rude to bring it up.
    Wedding Countdown Ticker LilySlim Weight loss tickers

    image 225 Invited so far!
    image 148 Are ready to party!
    image 77 Will be missing out!
    image 0 Are MIA!
  • You're lucky to have so many people who are obviously very excited for you! I'm only having one shower and wouldn't know who to invite to more than one.
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  • I'm having 2, possibly 3... One up north for my family, one down here for friends and possibly a seperate one for FI's family. As long as the guest lists aren't crossing (people getting the impression you want them to buy multiple gifts for mutiple showers) then you're good to go.
  • ok great thanks :)  yea I'm inviting different people to each one. 
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