I am not planning on using a whole song.. I am thinking of however using either a phrase from one song or a few select phrases from about 2 or 3 songs that fit together an fit our life. Do you think this is a bad idea to use song lyrics as part of our vows? I would have him do the same, maybe start off with phrases we choose and then finish with the average, i take you to be my husband love cherish blah blah...
I didn't think he would want to write his own vows but he said that it sounds like a great idea. If you write your own vows do you still say the traditional to have and hold part?