Both my mom and my FMIL drove me crazy this weekend. Its so hard to tell moms what to do sometimes because they always think they are right simply because they are the mom.
FMIL: Decided this weekend she wants to throw me a shower this summer. I told her my mom was gonna throw one, but FMIL said she wanted to invite a lot of people (she tends to invite completely random people to parties, and it drives us NUTS). So I said sure, also my mom said that was fine because then FMIL could go crazy with guests on her own dime. However, FSIL is getting married a month before we are, and FMIL booked her shower already. She then asked to book mine a month after FSIL's shower. I said "Umm thats a little tight for one family to do, don't you think?" She insisted it was fine, but I know their family is tight on money and probably will attend one and not the other. Plus, now the summer goes like this: June = FSIL shower, July = My shower, Aug = FSIL wedding, Sept = My wedding. Thats kind of crazy. I tried to talk her into moving the showers up but she refused. Also, their family reunion is in between the shower dates!
My Mom: Has a friend who is a seamstress. She has insisted this friend alter my dress because she has made dresses in the past. I told my mom making your own dress and altering one someone else has made is totally different. She keeps saying this lady needs to come see the gown and decide if its something she can do or not. That has yet to happen, mostly because this lady's husband has been ill and in the hospital. I am extremely nervous that this won't get done on time or will get botched because she isn't as skilled as my mom thinks. I would rather have it go back to the salon and get done there. It's making me stress out like crazy!
Any insight or suggestions? Why the heck is it so hard for moms to understand NO?